We all long for the relationship. Human is a social being, and contact with others is as vital to us as the air we breathe. Moreover, we need different types of relationship – romance, family, friendships, partnerships. And often building the relationships turns to be very challenging. And even more so – to preserve them.
Confrontations, mutual reproaches, mistrust – difficulties common to all types of relationships. Marriages fall apart, children stop communicating with their parents, friendships break, ambiance at work becomes intolerable… Some of those situations are probably familiar to most of us.
In my practice I came across various relational troubles. Causes, however, on my personal opinion, are often the same. First of all, we often are simply not aware of what is it we really want from the relationship. We think we know, but at a closer look it turns out to be not that obvious. As a result, we start blaming others in our misery, we demand, we are hurt.
And the break up is often nothing more than an escape. Escape with the hope, that next time with someone else it will be different, it will be better. But as a rule, history repeats itself. Until something is changed.
I invite you to try to understand what exactly is happening in your family, at work, with friends… what is your “relationship pattern”. and how it can be replaced by a new one, more productive.
Family consultation, where all members take part, is definitely beneficial, however not necessary. Getting to understand yourself is already a big step towards harmony in relationships. And it is not uncommon that changes in yourself activate transformation process in others.
Live fully, love, communicate, share. And I’ll be delighted to help you get there!